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Inconsistencies in Youth Assessments and School Accommodations

July 20, 20255 min read

The Inconsistencies in Youth Assessments and School Accommodations

Inconsistencies in assessments can be extremely frustrating and confusing. As a parent trying to get help for your child in school, it can feel like you're constantly being handed puzzle pieces that don’t even fit together (and sometimes, they may not seem to be from the same box). Unfortunately, there can also be inconsistencies within the same evaluation or report. Totally exhausting!

One professional says your child has ADHD. Another says not to worry because they are just "active." One school-based assessment shows minor academic struggles, while a private evaluation reveals a learning disability. So, which is it — and why does it matter? And as importantly, what do you do??

Welcome to the confusing world of youth assessments and school accommodations. Be let me validate your experience and feelings on this matter. You are not crazy!

Assessment Does Not Equal Accommodation

Most parents are never specifically told that not all diagnoses automatically lead to school support. And not all evaluations are created equal. A medical diagnosis (like ADHD or anxiety) doesn’t guarantee your child will qualify for a 504 Plan or an Individualized Education Program (IEP). Schools look at educational impact — which means your child must not only have a diagnosis, but also be struggling academically, behaviorally, or socially in the school setting as a direct result of the diagnosis. Remember this phrase: EDUCATIONAL IMPACT.

So even if your child has a diagnosis from a psychologist, it might not qualify them for school accommodations unless the school sees it affecting performance. AND sometimes, you have to guide them on this path to get to the end result that is best for your child. I know you’re thinking “What???? Are you kidding? I have no idea how to do that!”

Hang with me! I’m going to try to unpack this issue for you and offer some tools to equip you.

Why the Inconsistencies Happen

  1. Different Tools, Different Goals
    A neuropsychologist might use a comprehensive battery of tests to assess how your child thinks, learns, and processes information. A school team, on the other hand, may use shorter, standardized assessments to screen for eligibility — not necessarily to diagnose or deeply understand the root cause. Click here to read my post about what makes getting supports so challenging.

  2. Varying Training and Perspectives
    Private clinicians are trained to diagnose as well as treat the condition(s) that have been diagnosed. School psychologists are trained to evaluate for educational need and eligibility under special education law. Recall that I asked you to remember the phrase “educational impact”? School evaluations are looking for that impact. The goal for each professional is different. And that means, so are the outcomes.

  3. Subjectivity and Bias
    Some assessment tools rely on observation and rating scales completed by teachers, parents and often the child themselves. These can vary widely based on who’s filling them out, how well they know the child (or how well the child can rate their own challenges), or even implicit bias around behavior or disability. Rarely, but possible, assessors can be overtly biased against a student. An example would be a teacher rating a child that they have had conflict with and do not see educational concerns but rather a “typical bad kid”.

  4. State and District Guidelines
    Unfortunately, what qualifies a child for support in one school district may not qualify them in another. There’s no single national standard for determining eligibility for 504 Plans or IEPs — leaving room for inconsistent interpretations. This is a huge part of the problem!

What This Means for Parents

If you've ever felt like you're being told conflicting things about your child, you're not imagining it. The system can be frustrating, confusing and inconsistent — and you're not alone in feeling this way.

Here’s what you can do:

  • Request Independent Evaluations
    If you disagree with a school evaluation, you have the legal right to request an Independent Educational Evaluation (IEE) at the school’s expense. Please submit the request prior to obtaining the private evaluation to ensure it will be covered.

  • Bring Outside Data
    While schools are not legally required to accept outside diagnoses at face value or evaluations from other professionals for eligibility, they must at least consider them. Share private evaluations and be ready to explain how your child’s diagnosis affects their ability to function in school. There’s that phrase again: educational impact.

  • Ask Direct Questions
    Don’t be afraid to ask: “Can you explain why this evaluation did not qualify my child for accommodations?” or “What would need to be true for my child to qualify for support?”

  • Know the Laws
    Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act and the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) are your friends here. Understanding your child’s rights helps you advocate more effectively. This can be some lengthy and tedious reading, but in the end, it’s nothing but helpful in your mission to get supports. You’ll be glad you did the work.

Bottom Line: It’s Not You. It’s the System.

If you're feeling like you're beating your head against a wall, it's not because you’re doing anything wrong. I want to say this again. It’s not because you are doing anything wrong! It’s because the system isn’t always designed to be clear, fair, or consistent. But with the right knowledge, tools and support, you can push through that wall and make sure your child gets what they need.

Click here for my free checklist: "what to do when assessments don't match"

 

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Christie Sloan

assist parents with children in need of supports and services while enrolled in school in order to reach their full potential

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